I think everyone that's dating is
我认为每个约会的人都在
looking for
寻找
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love it's like the fairy Tower that us
爱情就像我们
young girl dream
年轻女孩梦想的仙女塔
of he had nice
他有漂亮的
house
房子
jewelry the
珠宝
Bentley it's not every day you come into
宾利你不是每天都能
contact with an eccentric
接触到一个古怪的
Lord but it was all smoke and mirrors
领主但这一切都是烟雾和镜子
we were groomed as a
我们 被培养成一个
family was I
家庭，我
just another business transaction to
只是对他来说又一个商业交易，
him every single time we talked he would
每次我们谈话，他都会
have a
讲一个
story which was more bizarre than the
比上一个更离奇的故事，
last the whole situation it G from a
整个情况从一个
fairy
童话
tale to a
故事变成了一个
horror I think I'm very lucky to live on
恐怖故事，我想我 很幸运能生活在白色
the art of
的艺术上，
white it's a beautiful
这是一个美丽的
place it's a very small town every body
地方，这是一个很小的城镇，每个人都
knows everybody but it's a lovely place
认识每个人，但这是一个可爱的
to
live I don't think I've ever really had
居住地，我想我从来没有真正有过
a
一个
Ty someone that can make me laugh a nice
Ty，一个可以让我开怀大笑的人
smile nice eyes I'm happy with
微笑，漂亮的眼睛，我很高兴
that me and Meg a really close she's my
我和梅格非常亲密，她是我的
middle
child she was my first little
老二，她是我的第一个
girl speak to her all the time share all
女儿，经常和她说话，分享
her trials and
她所有的考验和
tribulations she's
磨难，她
fantastic back in 2017 I was approached
很棒，早在2017年，我就 走近
and asked if I wanted to open up a
并询问 如果我想开一家
bar I'd been managing roles in
酒吧，我以前一直在餐厅担任管理职位，
restaurants before but this was a new
但这是一个新
opportunity so we took over a rundown
机会，所以我们接管了一家破旧的
older bar and turned into a very trendy
老酒吧，把它变成了一家非常时髦的
cocktail bar and it was doing really
鸡尾酒吧，而且生意很好
well
I always had a very close-nit group of
我总是 当时我有一群非常亲密的
girlfriends at the time I was the only
女朋友，我是
one that I had in my own place so
自己家里唯一的女朋友，所以
they've all lived with me at some point
她们都和我住在一起过，
they were there every weekend they were
她们每个周末都在那里，她们一直
there all the time we were so young and
在那里，我们当时还很年轻
carefree we were doing something every
无忧无虑我们每天晚上都做一些事情，
night dinner drinks I was still at the
晚餐，喝酒，
end of the bar doing shots while she was
当她在工作的时候，我仍然在酒吧的尽头喝酒，
working we were living life living life
我们过着生活，生活
is a pair young 20- year olds
是一对 20 岁的年轻人，
really I cannot tell you how amazing
真的，我无法告诉你梅根有多棒，
Megan is she's like a friend a sister a
她就像 一个朋友一个姐妹一个
therapist she's like everything just
治疗师她就像一切都
wrapped into one person she's she's
融入了一个人她真是令人
unbelievable I've been single for about
难以置信我已经单身
two years at this point but I was very
两年了，但我
much enjoying the dating scene going out
非常享受约会的场景，出去
on lots of dinner dates and meeting lots
吃很多晚餐，认识
of new people
很多新朋友 人们
Megan Was a Serial
梅根是一个连续的
data but I was fully for supporting
数据，但我完全支持
her it would be easy to say you w
她，这将是 说起来容易，你正在
love but then obviously everybody wants
爱情，但显然每个人都希望
that I was working in the bar it was the
我在酒吧工作，那是
middle of the week it was very
一周的中间，非常
quiet I remember clocking him as he came
安静，我记得他进来时看到了他，
in he's quite tall very well dressed not
他很高，穿着得体，不是
the kind of person you'd see R Shanklin
你会在日常工作中见到 R Shanklin 的那种人，
on a day-to-day
basis the day that he came in we were
他来的那一天，我们
talking quite a lot obviously it was a
聊了很多，显然他是
new person new face around the town he
镇上一个新人，一个新面孔，他
introduced himself as berti
自称是 Berti
Underwood he was very well to do very
Underwood，他很好 做得
very well spoken very polite very well
非常好，说话非常有礼貌，举止
mannered
得体，
he was an interesting character to get
他是一个有趣的人物，
know he just moved to the island from
他刚从大陆搬到岛上，
the mainland he was a horologist which I
他是一个钟表匠，我
didn't know at the time but that's like
当时并不知道，但那就像
working with
和手表一起工作一样，
watches he just bought this house with a
他只是 我买了这栋房子，可以看到
SE
东南方向的
view he did stick out like a sore thumb
风景，他
on the AR of white absolutely everybody
在白色的 AR 上显得格格不入，
within a few months weeks knew who he
几个月内每个人都知道他是谁，
was I first heard about berti when a
我第一次听说 Berti 是
massive bunch of flowers randomly
arrived at the
在
bar there was a note saying it was
酒吧里收到一大束鲜花的时候 有张纸条说很
lovely to meet you be ready for 7:00
高兴见到你，请准备好在晚上 7 点到达。
p.m. tonight I'm taking you on a date it
今晚我要带你去约会，
definitely did feel like you know what
感觉就像
they do in the movies
电影里那样，
my good was just bouncing off the walls
我的感觉就像在墙上蹦蹦跳跳，
it it's so unheard of nowadays people
这在当今社会是闻所未闻的，人们
just send you a text and they want to go
只是给你发一条短信，就想和你约会
for a
day the girls came over to my flat to
一天 女孩们来到我的公寓
help me get
帮我准备
ready and then he picked me up from
然后他
outside the bar at about
在大约 7:00 的时候从酒吧外面接我，
7:00 from the start there was like a big
从一开始，就像一个很大的
initial attraction
初始景点，
we went to the Royal in
我们去了
vetner the iest place you could go for
vetner 的皇家 最适合去吃
dinner I was only 20 at the time I've
晚餐的地方，当时我只有 20 岁，我
never quite had that treatment
before it definitely was a lot nicer
以前从未受到过这样的待遇，这绝对
than a lot of other First
比其他很多第一次
Dates there was something there between
约会要好得多，我们之间有某种东西，
us but I wasn't going to make the first
但我没有
move
after dinner he invited me back to his
晚餐后，他邀请我去他
place for a cup of tea um and it was
家喝杯茶，嗯，
just a cup of
只是
tea it was an absolutely beautiful
喝杯茶，那是一栋非常漂亮的
three-story
三层
house there was beautiful paintings on
楼房子，墙上挂着美丽的画，有
the
wall lots of stories about how he bought
很多关于 他
it at auction was really run down and he
在拍卖会上买下它的方式真的很破旧，他
had lots of stories about where
讲了很多关于
everything had come from and the whole
一切的故事 他来自哪里，以及
timeline on on how he'd renovated the
他如何翻修这个地方的整个时间线，
place he did tell me that he's actually
他告诉我，他实际上是
lord passed down from his granddad never
从他爷爷那里传下来的一位贵族，我
met a lord before so I had absolutely no
以前从未见过贵族，所以我完全不
idea he had this antique poster of an
知道他有一张安德伍德打字机的古董海报
Underwood typewriter framed on the wall
墙上挂着
his great great-grandfather had invented
他的曾曾祖父发明的
the Underwood typewriter and that's
安德伍德打字机，
where his name and his money had come
他的名字和财富就是从那里来的
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from he dropped me back home to my flat
after the tea um we did share a little
茶后他送我回公寓，嗯，我们
kiss in the car on the way
在车里轻轻地吻了一下
back there were lots of butterflies it
回来的路上有很多蝴蝶，
was very exciting the whole experience
非常令人兴奋，整个经历都
was
wonderful it was one of the best first
很棒，这是我经历过的最好的第一次
dates that I've ever had I was like a
约会之一，我就像一个
giddy
兴奋的
child she was really excited like this
孩子，她真的很兴奋，就像这个
man's so nice like he's really well
男人真好，就像 他说话很流利，
spoken he treats me well someone that
对我也很好，
she'd want to take home to our family
她想把他带回家，和家人团聚。
she was so ecstatic about it like
她对此欣喜若狂，
buzzing the early days with Bertie were
和 Bertie 在一起的最初时光令人
amazing
惊叹，
we were going away all of the time in
我们一直在
London he was like no other relationship
伦敦度假，他和其他人不一样
I've been
我曾经有过这样的关系，
in but used to go off the island quite
但过去 他经常离开岛
often for
去
work he did always used to bring gifts
工作，总是会带礼物
back which was very nice
回来，这些礼物很不错，有
perfume clothes
香水、衣服、
shoes lots of hared gift bags over the
鞋子、很多礼物袋，
time even when it was sad that he'd have
即使当他
to go away for work he would always make
因为工作而不得不离开时，他也会 总是
up for it with the coming back with
用回来的
gifts he bought me a car honestly never
礼物来弥补他给我买了一辆车说实话我从来没有
thought that I would have a car like
想过我会有一辆这样的车
that it was the
这是我的
dream driving around in nice
梦想开着漂亮的
cars wearing the beautiful jewelry
汽车戴着漂亮的珠宝
it's like baby you've got it
就像宝贝你拥有了它
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all my family loved
我全家人都很喜欢
him everything did move very fast he
他，一切都进展得很快，他
offered for me to move in with
提出让我和他一起住，
him which at the time was a huge deal
这在当时对我来说是一件大事，
for me because I've never lived with a
因为我以前从来没有和伴侣一起住过，
partner
before this is definitely the nicest
这绝对是
house I've ever lived
我住过的最好的房子
in we did get pictures of us printed off
我们确实把我们在一起的照片打印出来
together to put in frames around the
挂在
house just to make it feel a bit more
家里的相框里，只是为了让这里感觉更
hours and a bit more homely which was
温馨、更温馨，这很
sweet that was actually his
贴心，这实际上是
idea over dinner one day he did say I
他有一天在晚餐时说的我
love
爱
you I felt on top of the world
你 我感觉自己站在了世界的巅峰
I think I obviously knew long before he'
我想，早在他
actually told me that I did love him but
告诉我我爱他之前，我显然就知道了，但这
yeah it all just happened quite
一切都发生了 相当
naturally it really did feel like a
自然，真的感觉像梦想成
dream come
true in
真了，
2016 I was living in
2016 年我住在
Hastings was happy I was going out
黑斯廷斯，很高兴出去
enjoying life and I was at work at the
享受生活，我在
supermarket this guy comes over to me
超市工作，一个人走过来
and said to me hi my name's Robert and
对我说 嗨，我叫罗伯特，
um how are you
你好吗，
Mike he had a posh spoken
迈克，他说话很有
voice he was smart casually
气质，穿着休闲时尚，
dressed I said who are you type of thing
我问他你是谁，
and then he said he said well we been
然后他说我们
chatting on
在磨床上聊天，
grinder been passing photos and getting
传递照片，变得很
friendly and all that sort of
友好，诸如此类 某种
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thing and we became
东西，我们成了
friends I haven't got a clue he's a
朋友，我不知道他是一个
fraudster me and Bertie went out a
骗子，我和伯蒂出去过
couple of times went to a pub once and
几次，去过一次酒吧，
then on another occasion we went to
还有一次我们去了
Brighton
布莱顿，
we were looking in art galleries and he
我们在寻找 艺术画廊，他
was spending money on quite expensive
把钱花在了相当昂贵的
stuff lots of money it was like living
东西上，很多钱，就像过着
the high
上流
life he told me he was a Lord because of
社会的生活，他告诉我他是一个贵族，因为
the way he dressed the his mannerism the
他的穿着方式，他的举止，他的古怪之处，
the little bits of eccentricity and all
所有
that it's not every day you come into
这些都不是每天都有的 你接触到
contact with an eccentric Lord
古怪的上帝，
we knew each other's ins and outs as
我们彼此了解对方的来龙去脉，
such as friends and I'd been to his flat
就像朋友一样，我去过他的公寓，
he'd cooked me dinner and we' gone out
他给我做了晚餐，我们一起出去
socially and all that and one particular
社交，诸如此类，有一次
occasion we were having a few drinks and
我们喝了几杯，
just having a laugh and a joke he said
然后 他开玩笑地
to me I've got a friend who was coming
对我说，我有一个朋友要
with me on holiday to um Venice who
和我一起去威尼斯度假，他
can't come he said but the tickets all
不能来，他说，但票都
bought and paid for so he said
买了，也付了，所以他说
this is a bit presumptuous of me he said
我这样有点冒昧， 他说，
um would you like to
嗯，你想来吗？
come I said well I've never been to
我说，我以前从来没有去过
Venice
威尼斯，
before he said all I have to do is
他说我要做的就是
change a documentation into your name
把一份文件改成你的名字，
which he did there and then in front of
他当着我的面做了这件事，
me he said but I need a copy of your
他说，但我需要一份 你的
passport so he took a screenshot of my
护照，所以他截取了我的护照的屏幕截图
passport and he uploaded it and he sent
，然后上传并发送了
it
它，
off I didn't think much of
我没怎么在意
it on another visit he said to me oh
在另一次拜访时，他对我说哦，
I've got a problem my eBay account has
我遇到了一个问题，我的 eBay 帐户
just been frozen he said would you
刚刚 冰雪奇缘他说你会
consider selling some it on my behalf he
考虑代表我卖一些吗他
said he needed to sell a Rolex watch so
说他需要卖一块劳力士手表所以
I agreed
我同意
he sold this watch through my eBay
他卖了这块手表 通过我的 eBay
account everything was hunky
账户一切都很
dory about a month afterwards is when I
顺利，大约一个月后，我
got my first message from a
收到了一位先生的第一条消息，
gentleman oh [\h__\h] hit the fan
哦，该死的，
I was getting messages left right and
我收到了
center from different people saying I
来自不同人的消息，说我
was taking their
拿了他们的
money but we're not talking hundreds
钱，但我们没有交谈 数百
we're talking
甚至
thousands they were all sending me
数千个，他们都给我发了
pictures of the same Rolex watch that
they actually bought
他们实际购买的同款劳力士手表的照片，
when I realized I contacted eBay and
然后我意识到我联系了 eBay，并
said what what was
说发生了什么事，
happening the start of the scam was he
骗局的开始是他
needed a document to prove who I
需要一份文件来证明我是谁，
was he used my screenshot of my
他用 我截图了我的
passport to then send to everyone to
护照，然后发给每个人，以
prove that I was a genuine
证明我是一个真诚的
person I confronted
人，我质问
him I said look what you going to do
他，我说看你打算怎么做，
about it he said leave it with me I S it
他说把它留给我，我同意，
I never saw him after that that was the
之后我再也没有见过他，那是
last time I actually set eyes on him
最后一次 我真的见过他
this was the most fast-paced
这是我经历过的节奏最快的
relationship I'd ever been in our first
关系，我们在一起的第一个
Christmas together we were just sat on
圣诞节，我们只是坐在沙发上
the sofa having a
drink he turned around and said he had
喝酒，他转过身说他还给
one more present left for me and pulled
我留了一份礼物 然后
out this very nice red ctio bag got down
拿出一个非常漂亮的红色 ctio 包
on my knee and asked me to marry
单膝跪地向我求婚
him I was absolutely blown away like the
我完全被震撼了 就像戒指一样
ring was
令人
stunning it was impressive I'm not going
惊叹，令人印象深刻，我不会
to lie all of a sudden they're
撒谎，他们突然
engaged I was shocked it hadn't been
订婚了，我很震惊，
long I did say to Megan like are you
没过多久，我确实对梅根说，你
sure this is what you want it's a bit
确定这是你想要的吗，有点
soon
很快
she was so in the moment happy excited
她就变得非常开心和兴奋，
like this is what I want for myself this
就好像这就是我想要的，这
is my life now almost like the fairytale
就是我现在的生活，几乎就像
relationship that us young girls dream
我们年轻女孩梦想
of it hadn't been long that they hadd
的童话般的关系，他们在一起没多久，
been in a relationship together but they
但他们都在一起
both seemed really happy so I was happy
了 看起来真的很开心，所以我也很高兴，
but he was very much part of the
但他是
family we did get planning straight away
家庭的重要组成部分，我们立即开始筹划，这
it was most definitely a no expense bed
绝对是一场不花钱的
wedding I think to myself is this what
婚礼，我心里想，
it's like marrying a
嫁给一位
lord Bertie used to say often you know
伯蒂曾经说过的贵族是什么感觉 你知道，
that I would gain a title for marrying
嫁给他我会获得一个头衔，
him it was quite a surreal
这是一次超现实的
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experience I wanted to show off our
体验，我想炫耀我们的
relationship and what we were doing and
关系，我们在做什么，
all these amazing places we were going
我们要去的所有这些美妙的地方，
and my handsome boyfriend like why would
我英俊的男朋友说，
I not want to show him off but Bertie
我为什么不呢 想炫耀他，但伯蒂
did not allow me to post any photos of
不允许我
him on social
在社交媒体上发布他的照片，
media and I said well why am I not
我说 好吧，为什么我不被允许
allowed to post you on social
在社交媒体上发布你的照片，
media
he completely lost his
他完全失去了
head which was quite a shock to me
理智，这让我很震惊，
I couldn't understand why it was so
我不明白为什么这对
serious and important to him you know
他来说如此严肃和重要，你知道，
like the odd story on Instagram out for
就像 Instagram 上关于出去吃午饭的奇怪故事一样，
lunch why would that be the end of the
为什么 那会是
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world as Megan's and berty's
世界的末日吗？随着梅根和伯蒂的
relationship started to develop it was
关系开始发展，
so noticeable how less and less in
communication me and Megan were
我和梅根的交流越来越少，
our friendship definitely changed at
我们的友谊也发生了明显的变化，
this
point I started to think that um perhaps
我开始想，也许
Bertie was trying to get Megan to drift
伯蒂是在尝试 让梅根
away from her friends and almost molder
远离她的朋友，几乎
into someone that she wasn't almost to
变成一个她不是的人，几乎
start manipulating
开始操纵
her an issue that started occurring Lots
她，一个开始出现的问题，
within our relationship was the bar um
我们的关系中有很多问题是，
after i' moved moved in with him he just
在我搬去和他同居后，他就
wasn't very happy about me being there
不再 很高兴我待到
so late he didn't like the people knew
那么晚，他不喜欢人们认识
me and and Men wanted to talk to me so
我，而且男人们想和我说话，所以
that was always um a bit of a sore
这总是一个有点痛苦的
subject the bar was like my baby I was
话题，酒吧就像我的宝贝，我
very proud of the bar and leaving was
为酒吧感到非常自豪， 离开真的
really
很
sad but I did um and went to work for
伤心，但我还是去了他那里工作，
him that did ring larm bells it made me
他确实响了警报 这让我
feel quite uncomfortable because she
感到很不舒服，因为她在
would then be completely dependent on
Bertie
financially as well as everything
经济上和其他所有事情上都将完全依赖 Bertie，
else I used to take photos of the
我过去常常拍摄手表的照片
watches and I used to upload them and I
，上传它们，
used to send emails and make all the
发送电子邮件，制作他发布的所有
social media
社交媒体
content he had a little workshop set up
内容
coming off of the L
在 L
L he used to sit there of an evening
L 附近设立了一个小作坊，他过去常常在晚上坐在那里，
with his little head torch on fixing
头上戴着小
watches used to sit there and watch him
灯修理手表，坐在那里，手里
with a glass of red wine and think gosh
拿着一杯红酒，看着他，想着天哪，
you're so
你 很
clever one day brti decided to get a
聪明，有一天，brti 决定养一只
puppy for when he's working away and I
小狗，当他在外工作时，我
get a bit of company we named our to
得到了一些陪伴，我们给我们的
hour Shubert which was berty's choice of
小时命名为 Shubert，这是 berty 选择的
name
名字，
sh he not scared of it is
他不害怕，
he he was very very cute a little bit
他非常非常可爱
naughty spent the whole of his life sat
淘气的他一生都
on my chest curled up but he was yeah
坐在我的胸口蜷缩着，但他是的，
like the most perfect little
就像最完美的
puppy we were like this little family it
小狗，我们就像这个小家庭一样，
was amazing
真是太神奇了
Bertie had a friend called Alex who I
伯蒂有一个叫亚历克斯的朋友，我
believ to be an artist at the time he
相信他当时是个艺术家
was living abroad they would speak on
住在国外，他们会
the phone on quite a regular
经常打电话
basis I'm from Brighton
我来自布莱顿，
originally primarily I make installation
最初主要从事装置艺术
work anything from illustration to film
工作，从插画到电影
making some writing but the thing which
制作，还有一些写作，但
kind of characterizes all of it is that
所有这些工作的特点是，
it's it always involves a story and
它们总是与一个故事有关，而
Bertie had absolutely set the scene for
伯蒂绝对为
a brilliant
这个精彩的
story in the winter of 2016 I was living
故事奠定了基础。 2016 年冬天，我住
in
Korea I was isolated quite a lot of the
韩国，我大部分时间都很孤独，
time um I mean I had a lot of great
嗯，我的意思是，我有很多
friends and everything but the thing is
好朋友，但问题是
I worked for myself I had my own public
我为自己工作，我有自己的公共
art studio which was on the top of a
艺术工作室，就在
mountain was a little bit out of the way
山顶有点偏僻，
I wanted to get back to the UK and do
我想回到英国，为
something about British
英国
culture I had this crazy
文化做点什么，我有了这个疯狂的
idea I went on Craig's List back when it
想法，我上了 Craig's List，当时它还
still used to allow personal ads and I
允许发布个人广告，我
basically just wrote a personal ad with
基本上只是 我写了一份征婚启事，
pretty much a in list of all of the
列出了
things that I would want in someone that
我希望约会对象具备的所有条件，然后
I was going to
date and I just kind of shot it out into
就把它发到了
the ether um not really expecting
网上，其实并没有期待
anything to come back if I'm
任何回报。 说
honest about a month later I had this
实话，大约一个月后，我收到了这封
email which was answering the Craigslist
回复 Craigslist
ad it was clear that they had away with
广告的电子邮件。 很明显他们已经摆脱了
words it was clear that they were able
语言的束缚，很明显他们
to endear you to
能够让你喜欢他们
[音乐]，
them and that's how I first met
这就是我第一次见到
Bertie when Bertie did kind of come into
伯蒂的时候，伯蒂确实进入了
my life and did phone me a lot you know
我的生活，并经常给我打电话，你知道
we we would chat about kind of anything
我们会聊天
and everything and every single time we
每次我们
talked he would have a story which was
聊天时，他都会讲一个
more bizarre than the
last I think I said that he looked
我记得我说过他看起来
younger than
比
29 he launched almost directly into the
29 岁还年轻，他几乎直接开始讲述
story about how actually the reason why
he looked younger was because he had had
他看起来更年轻的原因 是因为他做了
his face surgically
面部
reconstructed he said it was because his
重建手术，他说是因为他的
ex-boyfriend had locked him in their
前男友把他锁在他们的
apartment and tried to kill him
公寓里并试图杀死他，
basically it was the Mad stories about
基本上就是关于他的前男友在逃的疯狂故事，
the ex who is on the run from the police
his
他的
mom beat this woman so thoroughly in the
妈妈打败了他 一个女人的脸被狠狠地打了一下，
face that one of the rubies in her ring
以至于她戒指上的一颗红宝石
got dislodged and lodged into the
脱落并卡在了
woman's face and his mom knocked two of
女人的脸上，而他的妈妈打掉了
This Woman's teeth
这个女人的两颗牙齿，
out his stories were very entertaining
他的故事很有趣，
but they're also very
但也非常
dark there were a lot of discussions
黑暗，引起了很多讨论
about what we would want in a
关于我们在音乐关系中想要什么，
relationship but it became clear that
但它 很明显
that was not something that I would want
这不是我想要的
I arrived back jet lagged then he kind
我回来的时候有点时差，然后他
of steps up contact a little bit and
稍微加强了联系，
he's asking okay well let's go out and
他说好吧，我们出去
喝点
pint we were walking up the hill and
啤酒吧，我们正走上山
there's a
还有一辆
Bentley he said Yep this is my car so
宾利，他说，是的，这是我的车，
then I was like okay
然后我就觉得
wow and then he turned to me and he said
哇哦，然后他转向我，说
I'm an
我是
Earl then uh we went to the next bar and
伯爵，然后我们去了下一家酒吧，就在
he that's when he started talking about
那时，他开始谈论
his bodyguard and his
他的保镖 他的
driver got the Bentley we've got the
司机开着宾利，我们穿着
Posh clothes we've got uh the axon um
时髦的衣服，我们有阿克森，嗯，
and now we've got a driver and a
现在我们有了司机和
bodyguard so at this point you know all
保镖，所以在这一点上，你知道所有的
the things are stacking
事情都
up he began hinting quite early that he
堆积如山，他很早就开始暗示 他
wanted to commission an artwork from
想委托我创作一件艺术品，
me he told me that he had met a girl on
他告诉我，他在
the aisle of white and that she was a
白色的过道上遇到了一个女孩，她就像是
bit of a diamond in the rough kind of
未经雕琢的钻石，
thing he was buying a mansion on the
他正在
aisle of white for them to move into
白色的过道上买一座豪宅 让他们搬进
that he would need artwork
那个 他需要
for Bertie had introduced me over the
为 Bertie 做艺术品，他通过电话把我介绍给
phone to Alex Alex had an invite to the
了 Alex，Alex 收到了
wedding so we we did speak to him on a
婚礼邀请，所以我们经常和他聊天，
on a regular
basis he never told me that they were
他从来没有告诉我他们
engaged none of
订婚了，但
that but he decided that he wanted to
这些都没有，但是他 决定他想
get married and have everything at
结婚，一切都在
Osborne house
奥斯本的
house you know we went there for a few
房子里，你知道，我们去那里开了几次
meetings we had everything set in stone
会，一切都定下来了，
we had the date wedding planning was in
我们确定了婚礼日期，婚礼计划正在全面进行中
full
swing
摇摆
beautiful it was quite emotional to see
很美，看到梅根我很激动
Megan in a wedding
dress you bring your your daughter up
你穿着婚纱把你的女儿
from a baby and and all of a sudden
从婴儿带大，然后突然间，
there a grain woman in a wedding shop
婚纱店里出现了一个卖谷物的女人。
one of the most powerful things that
Bertie did to convince you was he would
伯蒂最能说服你的一件事就是，他会
answer the phone in front of you talking
在前面接电话 你
to someone else who would corroborate
和别人交谈，对方会证实
the stories that he was giving
他给
you he used to answer the phone to his
你的故事，他过去经常接他爸爸的电话
dad all the
time and I could hear the conversations
，我可以听到
between him and his dad and they were
他和他爸爸之间的对话，他们
talking about him being an Earl and his
谈论他是伯爵，他的
duties as an Earl those were the things
作为伯爵的职责，这些事情
which really made his story believable
让他的故事变得可信，
because he can tell me whatever he wants
因为他可以告诉我他想说的一切
that's fine but to get other people
这很好，但让其他人也
involved in telling me the same
告诉我同样的
thing that's much more difficult to do
事情就困难得多了，
my friendship with Bertie started to
我和 Bertie 的友谊开始
take a Sinister
变得险恶，
turn he wanted me to
他想让我
doctor bank
篡改银行对
statements
账单和
passports I told him
护照，我拒绝了他，
no so he became more and more distant
所以他变得越来越疏远，
until eventually he just
直到 最后他就
disappeared I still wanted to know who
消失了，我仍然想知道
he was and what he was he used to
他是谁，他是做什么的，他曾经
pretend that he knew people that I
假装认识我认识的人，
knew and one day it just clicked I could
有一天我突然意识到我可以
get in contact with this person that he
联系到这个人，他
said that he
说他
[ 音乐]
knew just to see if he did or
只是想看看他是否
not so I phoned up this person and I
知道，所以我打电话给这个人，我
said to him look this is going to sound
对他说，这听起来
really weird but I met this
很奇怪，但我在布莱顿遇到了一个
guy in
人，
Brighton and he told me that he was an
他告诉我他是
Earl and then the phone went really
伯爵，然后电话 变得非常
quiet and this guy this police officer
安静，这个家伙这个警察
he said
说
Alex this guy he's really
亚历克斯这个家伙非常
dangerous and you need to get as far
危险，你需要
away from him as you can
尽可能远离他
I hadn't been living with Bertie very
我和伯蒂住在一起没
long before I realized that we were
多久 我意识到我们
getting a hell of a lot of post for
收到了这么多帖子，而
someone that didn't live
我们并没有 现场
there there was post every day for for
那里每天都有关于
这个
person I mentioned it lots of times
人的帖子，我
times to
多次向
Bertie I didn't get any answers from
伯蒂提到过这件事，但我没有得到他的任何回答，
him so being curious I did decide
所以出于好奇，我决定
to maybe do some digging I I don't
做一些挖掘，我不
know I felt like I needed to try and get
知道我感觉如何 好像我需要尝试
an understanding of what was happening
了解发生了什么，
so I went into his office
所以我走进他的办公室，
and I started going through the
开始翻
drawers I don't really know what I was
抽屉，我不知道我
expecting to
期望
find I did however find a wallet with
找到什么，但我找到了一个钱包，
numerous different bank cards in
里面有许多不同的银行卡
multiple different
names none of which in this wallet were
钱包里有多个不同的[音乐]名字，但都不叫
ber Underwood
ber Underwood
I did ask berti about these
我确实问过 berti 关于这些
cards his attitude changed
卡的事，他的态度立刻就变了，
instantly he shut it down quite quickly
他很快就关闭了它，
got very defensive and high rate my
变得非常防御，而且速度很快，我的
heart was racing my Palms were sweaty
心跳加速，手心出汗，
it's definitely when I started
肯定是我 我开始
questioning
质疑
everything SP to her on the fade I was
一切 SP，我当时
like just get out there come here let's
就想，赶紧出去，来这里，
regroup let's get you sorted we'll talk
让我们重新集合，帮你解决问题，我们会讨论
about
it something wasn't right so we done
这件事，有些事情不太对劲，所以我们做了
what anyone would do and started
任何人都会做的事，开始在谷歌上
Googling the names from the bank cards
搜索银行的名字 从老房子
and the letters that were arriving to
寄来的卡片和信件
the house from the old
tenants honestly I was
租户说实话我很
shocked his mug shot came up
震惊他的面部照片出现
everywhere he was on multiple news
在很多新闻
articles wanted Pages for Jewelers
文章中通缉珠宝商页面
warning you against this con
警告你提防这个
man hcon Bentley
骗子hcon Bentley
dealers he con har for half a million
经销商他骗了 50 万
pounds just absolutely
英镑
insane if he's capable of doing that
如果他能做到这一点绝对是疯了
what could he have possibly done to
他可能对我做了什么
me I instantly
我立刻
it felt
感到
sick this guy from a counselor state in
恶心这个家伙来自黑斯廷斯的一个顾问州
Hastings he's been pretending to be a
他一直假装是
member of
贵族，
nobility by putting on an
accent and wearing certain clothes and
装腔作势，穿着某种衣服
robbing a
抢劫
bank my stomach just
银行我的胃一下子就
dropped this was the man that my
掉了下来这是 我
daughter was going to marry
女儿要嫁的那个男人
he duped all of us we were groomed as a
欺骗了我们所有人，我们被当作
family then the letters started to
一家人对待，然后开始
arrive credit cards and Loans in Megan's
收到信用卡和梅根名下贷款的信件，
name that she knew absolutely nothing
而她
about and they just kept coming and
对此一无所知，他们只是不断地在
coming and
coming between different credit cards a
不同的信用卡之间来回奔波 卡
car phone Bo
汽车电话 Bo
business accounts business credit cards
商业账户 商业信用卡
he'd taken out all of these things in my
他以我的名义取出了所有这些东西，
name without me
而我却
knowing around £30,000
不知情 大约 30,000 英镑
we went to the police and went to action
我们去了警察局，然后采取行动
Ford um unfortunately there wasn't
福特 嗯不幸的是，
really a great deal that they could do
真的没有一个伟大的 他们可以达成协议 做
lots of things like the car and the
很多事情，比如汽车、
phone and some other bits and Bobs were
电话和其他一些东西，而鲍勃则被
seen as domestic issues rather than
视为家庭问题，而不是
fraudulent issues because we were in a
欺诈问题，因为我们处于
relationship so I just had to buy the
恋爱关系中，所以我必须
bullet and start paying off the debt
买单，开始偿还债务，
he told me that he'd left the
他告诉我他 离开了
island but he came over to talk to
小岛，但他过来跟
me told me that he did love me and that
我说话，告诉我他确实爱我，
it was different and
这是不同的，
that he didn't
他
mean to take anything this far
无意把事情发展到这种地步，
that was the last time I saw him in
那是我最后一次在
person I did say to Mom whatever he has
现场见到他 我确实对妈妈说过，不管他
done we have the engagement
做了什么，我们都有订婚
ring we'll be fine like we'll sell the
戒指，我们会没事的，我们会卖掉
ring we'll clear it that should cover it
戒指，我们会清理它，应该能覆盖它，
we do this we'll get it valued we'll
我们会这样做，我们会给它估价，我们会
find the best way of selling it and
找到最好的 销售的方式，
we'll start clearing these
我们将开始清理这些
decks we took them to a Jewelers in
牌组，我们把它们带到珠宝商那里
ride tested
进行测试，
them and they were all
他们都
fake shocked like really shocked
假装震惊，就像真的震惊一样，
actually but also not surprised
但也不惊讶，
that left her with absolutely
这让她
nothing I realized okay I really might
一无所获，我意识到好吧，我真的可能
be in the [\h__\h] now
在 现在的情况很糟糕，
and I could be in in some big
我可能会有大
trouble not only had put all of my trust
麻烦，因为我不仅把我所有的信任
and my whole life into this man that I
和我的整个生命都放在了这个我爱的男人身上
loved and thought I was going to
，我认为 要
marry why am I getting emotional
结婚了为什么我会情绪化
I think maybe just going over it all
我想也许只是
again like it was pretty crazy
再重复一遍就像这是非常疯狂的
experience I had to speak to Megan we
经历我不得不和梅根谈谈我们
need to do something about this let's
需要做点什么让我们
tell the story
讲故事
and let's get his face out there
让我们得到他的
basically I if I could make his life
基本上，如果我能让他的生活
uncomfortable for one second it was all
不舒服一秒钟，那一切都是
going to be worth
值得的
it and that's what we
这就是我们所做的，
did we sat down we wrote the
我们坐下来，我们写了
post we read it through
帖子，我们一起读了它
together and I posted it and I posted it
，我发布了它，我发布了
in as many places as I possibly
我尽可能多地发布它
could and before I knew it people
，在我意识到之前，人们就
started sharing
开始分享
it it had 500 shares and 1,000 shares
它，它已经有了 500 次分享、1,000 次分享、
2,000 shares and it just
2,000 次分享，而且分享量还在
escalated I had message after message
不断增加，我收到了一条又一条消息，
after
然后
message I came across this post and I
我偶然看到了这个帖子， 我
just remember it
只记得它
detailing all of these horrible things
详细描述了伯蒂所做的所有可怕的事情
that Bertie had done and it wasn't just
，不仅仅是
that there were all of these comments
from other people who had also had
其他人的评论，他们的东西也被偷了
things stolen and damaged and had their
，被损坏了，他们的
lives really hurt by
生活也受到了伤害。
berti one of my colleagues she said Mike
berti one 我的同事她说
I think you need to read
迈克 我觉得你需要读一下
this some of these people he duped into
其中一些人被他
getting their private bank accounts he
骗取了他们的私人银行账户，他
got in to having their bank
进入了他们的银行
cards and that really set me off the
卡，这真的让我
think that he'd actually got to people
想到他实际上
some people sexually through grinder and
通过磨床与一些人发生了性关系 和
social
社交
sites I reached out to some of these
网站，我联系了一些
people and I just went right I'm not
人士，然后我就直接说我不会
letting this person get away with what
让这个人逍遥法外，
he's
done I'm going to get this person put
我要把这个人关
behind
进
bars I had multiple men contact me on
监狱，我有几个男人通过
Facebook to tell me that they had been
Facebook 告诉我他们
sleeping with
和
him Not only was he chea on me he
他睡过觉他不仅欺骗我他
was doing it in my
还在我的
bed with
床上和
men this like whole person that was my
男人做爱这个完整的人那就是我的
world like was never
世界就像从来都不是
a real
一个真实的
person none of it was
人这一切都不是
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real it really broke my heart to see
真的，看到
her
她
that
那么
upset she changed her heart W for this
难过，她变心了，我真的很伤心。为了这个
man
男人，
I contacted the
我联系了
police we built a case between the
警察，我们在涉案人员之间建立了一个案件，
people that had got involved and given
并提供了
evidence there was enough evidence to
证据，有足够的证据
take it via a jury
通过陪审团进行审理。
he was found guilty in his
absence the judge handed down a sentence
缺席审判，法官判处
of 5
years he'd actually done this before
他 5 年有期徒刑。 实际上之前就做过这个，
been convicted of it done time in prison
被判有罪，坐过牢，
for it he'd come out he just picked up
他出来后又重新开始做他之前的事情，
where he'd left
off about a year and a half down the
大约一年半后，
line i' moved on with my life I had a
我继续我的生活，我在 Facebook 上发了一条
Facebook message from
消息
somebody he contacted me to let me know
他联系我，让我知道
that Bertie had been
伯蒂
arrested something that has Disturbed me
被捕了，但从那以后，让我感到不安的
ever since
was that Bertie was using my
是，伯蒂利用我的
career and my
职业和我的
website to corroborate the stories he
网站来证实他
was making up with new people that he
和他认识的新人编造的故事，
meeting that's the cleverest thing that
这是最聪明的做法
he was able to do to manipulate other
他能够操纵其他
people to tell his story so that he
人讲述他的故事，这样他就
didn't have to and when you're hearing
不必说了，当你
it from a third party it's more
从第三方那里听到它时，就更有
convincing he must have never had any
说服力了，他肯定从来没有
intentions of marrying me
想过要娶我，
I obviously had to contact suppliers and
我显然必须这样做 联系供应商并
cancel
取消
things I am very
订单我非常
angry I you know wasted the first two
生气，你知道我浪费了
years of my 20s on absolutely
我20多岁的前两年，
nothing other than a load of debt
除了一大堆债务什么都没做
once Megan found out about all of this
一旦梅根发现了所有这些
debt she um she worked her ass off to
债务，她就会拼命工作来
clear
偿还
it I had been dabbling in the
我
photography towards the end of the
在年底开始涉足摄影
relationship with berti I bored a
与 berti 的关系，我弄坏了一个
friend's camera and I just sort of been
朋友的相机，我只是
having some fun with it photographing
用它拍了些
friends children and things like that um
朋友的孩子之类的照片，
completely unintentionally it just
完全是无意的，它就这么偶然地
happened happened to turn into a
变成了一个
business which you know couldn't have
生意，你知道这是不可能
come at a better
发生的 在更好的
time she's had to rebuild her
时间，她必须重建她的
life she's had to work incredibly hard
生活，她必须非常努力地工作
to pay off the
来偿还积累的债务，我
debts that were accumulated very very
proud of Megan yeah I'm very excited for
为梅根感到非常自豪，是的，我
her future as well
也为她的未来感到非常兴奋
my life has changed so dramatically
我的生活发生了巨大的变化
since I was with
him and I've been in a new relationship
和他在一起，开始了一段新恋情
and I have my home I have my mortgage I
，我有了自己的家，有了自己的抵押贷款，
have my business my life is
有了自己的生意，我的生活
exactly what I wanted when I was with
正是我和他在一起时想要的。
him
he had walked out of an open prison
他走出了 开放监狱，
where he was serving his
他正在那里服刑
sentence currently wanted by the
目前被
police how did you get away with
警方通缉 你是怎么逃脱
that he didn't even do his
的 他甚至没有
sentence you couldn't write it all
服刑 你不可能把一切都写下来
going to start off by uh showing you a
将从呃开始 给你看一张
photograph of colen Greenwood and
科伦·格林伍德和
somebody by the name of James
某个叫 James
Scott you accept that that
Scott 你接受
you we in a relationship with Colleen no
你和 Colleen 的关系吗？
comment did you tell Colleen that you
你告诉 Colleen 你
were a f no comment in March
是 f 吗？2015 年 3 月
2015 she fell pregnant are you the
她怀孕了，你是
father of the
child it's time to all up and put your
孩子的父亲吗？现在是时候举起
hands up to what you've done a woman
双手了 你做了什么？一个
from the Northeast was duped by a man
来自东北的女人被一个在
she met online who lied about his
网上认识的男人欺骗了，这个男人谎报了自己的
identity James Scott was a very
身份。詹姆斯·斯科特是一个非常
charismatic
有魅力的
man it was almost like a
男人，这几乎就像
dream he had the will over everybody's
一场梦，他有意志力，让每个人都看在
eyes the lengths he went to it was it
眼里，他所做的一切 这
was just incredible no one could be
真是太不可思议了，没有人能
prepared for for what he
为他的所作所为做好准备，
did no
没有
one right
人对。
okay back in 2014 I was a divorced M of
好吧，2014 年，我是一个离婚的男人，有
two girls I'd been married for 17 years
两个女儿，我已经结婚 17 年了，
so being single again was quite a new
所以再次单身对我来说是一种全新的
experience some of my friends had said
体验 我的一个朋友说，
oh you know why don't you try a dating
哦，你知道为什么不试试约会
website dip your toe back in the water
网站，把脚趾伸进水里，然后
and thought you know might be nice to
想，你知道，认识一个人可能会很好，
meet someone go on a few
继续
days I don't think I particularly got a
呆几天，我不认为我特别喜欢那种
type just somebody that would make me
类型 有人会让我
laugh that was kind family orientated
笑，善良，以家庭为导向，
that's really important you don't have
真的 重要的是你不必
to have bulging muscles and tattoos and
有凸起的肌肉和纹身和
the designer beard it's all about being
设计师的胡须，这一切都是为了做一个
the nice
好人
guy the Wilder dating since I previously
怀尔德约会自从我以前
dated had changed I was quite nerved by
约会以来已经改变了我对此感到很不安
it a lot of pictures of men with fish
很多男人带着鱼的照片 由于
for some bizarre reason quite a few men
一些奇怪的原因，
that I would say were economic with the
我想说很多男人都对自己的身高真相很不了解，
truth about how tall they potentially
were all
sorts Sunday afternoon F check my
星期天下午F检查我的
messages and the particular one pinged
信息，特别是那个被ping的
up firefighter Jays messaged
消防员Jays发信息
you didn't have a photograph on it but
你没有照片 但
he said because of his job as a
他说，由于他的工作是消防员，所以把
firefighter it was frowned upon somewhat
to have your pictures out there because
你的照片放在外面会让人皱眉，
of that job and it sounded feasible and
这听起来是可行的，
as soon as I asked him for some
当我向他要
photograph he sent me probably five or
照片时，他给我发了大概五六张
six photos through so you know there was
照片，所以 你知道
no reason to to ask ask for any more
没有理由再问
questions to why he
为什么他
hadn't I first heard about James at work
没有，我第一次听说詹姆斯是在一天工作中，
one day coling just said oh this's this
科林只是说，哦，这就是
guy I've been chatting to online and he
我在网上聊过的那个人，
seems really nice one afternoon at work
一天下午他看起来真的很好 在工作时
he messaged my
他给我的
phone I asked my sister cuz I worked
手机发信息，我问 我的妹妹，因为我
with v she's like why not what have you
和她一起工作，她说为什么不呢，你有什么
got to lose
可失去的
he did a lot of the talking but the time
他说了很多，但时间
flew past he talked a lot about his two
过得很快，他说了很多关于他的两个
daughters a real doubting Father which
女儿，一个真正怀疑的父亲，这
was a massive tick for me you could tell
是一个巨大的勾选 你可以看出，
he was really passionate about being a
firefighter throughout the relationship
在整个关系中，他对成为一名消防员非常热情。
he would turn up after shift in his fire
他会在轮班结束后穿着消防
gear which was really nice you smell it
装备出现，这真的很好，你闻到它
as it came in in the house the smell of
进入房子时散发出的
smoke it was what defined him
烟味，这就是他
really one instance he saved a little
真正的身份 例如，他救了一个小
boy he jumped out of a burning building
男孩，他从一栋燃烧的建筑物中跳出，
with a little boy in his arms broken his
怀里抱着一个小男孩，
back in the
process and he had this card from the
过程中背部骨折，他有一张
little boy that he made specially for
小男孩特意为
him calling him his
他制作的卡片，称他为他的
hero it made your heart
英雄。 你的心
SW used to keep this on my desk at
SW 过去常常把它放在我办公桌上，
work I could look at him think well I
我可以看着他，想着我
might not be able to see him today cuz
今天可能见不到他了，因为
he's working but he's helping
他在工作，但他在帮助
people dating a firefighter is it's
人们和消防员约会，这
really nice but it does come with some
真的很好，但也有一些
negatives as
负面影响
well there'll be times that dates will
有时候约会会
be cut short or there'll be extra shifts
被缩短，或者
that have to go in on I understood that
需要加班 我明白
I appreciated
我很感激
that he was thoughtful he would send me
他很体贴，他会给我发
lovely text messages
可爱的短信，
he was sweet and he was kind and he made
他很贴心，很善良，让
you feel
你感到被
cherished we didn't see that much of
珍惜，我们见面不多，
each other because his shift patterns we
因为他的轮班安排，我们
didn't spend many full nights
没有花太多时间 我和他一起度过了许多个整晚的时光，
together but that was fine by me I was
但我对此并不介意，我
quite happy to split my time with him
很乐意和他一起度过我的时光，
with my girls with my friends
和我的女朋友们一起度过我的时光，
my girls were actually asking to meet
我的女孩们实际上要求见
him he's got a boyish charm about him
他，我想说他身上有一种男孩般的魅力，
I'd say and I remember that after
我 记得在
initially meeting him saying yeah he's
第一次见到他之后说是的，
he's a good guy mom yeah we'll be happy
他是个好人，妈妈，是的，我们很高兴
for you to date
你能和他约会。
him I knew a lot about his girls I've
我对他的女孩们了解很多，我
saw so many pictures
看过很多照片。
I would hear him on the phone at times
我会听他 有时会打电话
to his girls talking to
给他的女儿们，和
them James's girls were due to move
她们聊天詹姆斯的女儿们要和詹姆斯的前妻
abroad to the states to Texas with
一起搬到德克萨斯州，
James's ex-wife he was devastated and he
他很
sad seeing James so upset resonated with
伤心，看到詹姆斯这么难过，
me because if I thought my girls were
我产生了共鸣，因为如果我认为我的女儿们
going to move to the other side of the
要 搬到世界的另一边
world it would te my heart out so I
会让我心碎所以我
really felt for
真的很感同身受
him my sister and I are so close growing
他，我的妹妹和我从小就很亲密，
up we were
我们
inseparable she's been with me since the
形影不离，她从我
womb you know came into the world
来到这个世界就一直陪在我身边，我们在一起
together and you can't get any closer
，没有比这更亲密的了，
than that
really we work together we socialized
我们一起工作，
together it it was really important to
一起社交 对
me that cev likes
我来说，cev 喜欢
James we went out and I took James to
James 真的很重要，我们出去了，我带 James
meet my sister and a boyfriend at the
去见我姐姐和当时的男朋友
time Ryan who's now a husband so the
Ryan，他现在是我的丈夫，所以
first time I met James we certain having
我第一次见到 James 时，我们肯定在
a pub quiz and he bounded in you know
酒吧里玩问答游戏，他跳了进来，你知道
making an entrance everybody turned to
一进门，每个人都转过头
look in he came big and loud and sat
去看他，他身形高大，声音洪亮，和
down with Karen and I James Scott was a
凯伦和我坐在一起，詹姆斯·斯科特是一个
very charismatic man he would go into a
非常有魅力的人，他会走进一个
room and within five minutes everyone
房间，五分钟之内，每个人
would be his best friend you couldn't
都会成为他最好的朋友，你
help but be Intoxicated by because it
情不自禁地陶醉其中 因为
was just
Charming we'd been dating for a few
Charming我们约会了
months he'd met my family we were going
几个月，他见过我的家人，我们一起
on nice days out at that point I
度过了愉快的时光，那时我
realized that I loved him and couldn't
意识到我爱他，无法
imagine him not being a part a big part
想象他不成为我生命中重要的一部分
of my
在我的
life our relationship was going from
生涯中，我们的关系
strength to strength we got on we were
越来越好，我们
having a nice time neither of us ever
相处得很好， 美好的时光我们都没有
talked about wanting to have any more
谈论过想要再生
children in quite quite the opposite I'd
孩子，恰恰相反，我上一个
had quite a difficult delivery with my
last child and my children weren't on
孩子出生时非常困难，我的孩子不在
the agenda for me and he said the same
我的计划之内，他也这么说，
we were careful but obviously things
我们很小心 但显然事情
happen and we can't been careful enough
发生了，我们不能足够小心，当
I found out I was
我发现自己
pregnant she was really torn she didn't
怀孕时，她非常纠结，她不
know what to do but she knew that it
知道该怎么办，但她知道现在
wasn't the right time in her life to
不是她人生中
have a another baby I decided and James
再生一个孩子的合适时机。 决定，詹姆斯
totally backed me and agreed and that I
完全支持我，并同意我
should get a
应该被解雇
termination this is the one bit that
这是让
really upsets me
我非常难过的一点
sorry I'm really sorry
对不起我真的很抱歉
sorry I didn't think I'd do this
对不起我没想到我会这样做
it was something we should have been
这是某事 我们应该
there to support each other but he had
在那里互相支持，但他必须去，
to he had a shift and he couldn't get
他要轮班，不能
out of it so he went to work and and I
请假，所以他去上班了，
stayed alone that night um when it
那天晚上我一个人待着，嗯，事情
happened and um the baby was no more
发生的时候，嗯，孩子已经不在了
after the termination I was really
终止妊娠后，我真的很
fearful I didn't want to have any sort
害怕，我不想有任何形式
of physical relationship couldn't put
的肉体关系，不能再
myself through another termination I
经历一次终止妊娠，我
just couldn't have done
只是 不可能做到
it so James decided that he should get
所以詹姆斯决定他应该接受
vasectomy and then we wouldn't ever have
输精管切除术，这样我们就不必
to face that that problem ever happening
again after the procedure he was in a
再面对这个问题了，手术后他
bit of discomfort had a little bit of
有点不舒服，身上有点
bruising down below it was so many weeks
瘀伤 以下是几周
later that he showed me on his phone the
后，他在手机上向我展示了
results of a medical report in his name
一份以他的名字命名的医疗报告的结果，
showing that he had a new SPO
显示他有新的 SPO
count there was no fear anymore so we
计数，不再害怕了，所以我们
could start a relationship
可以再次开始一段关系
again it was lovely in but I just didn't
真是太好了 但我就是
feel
感觉
right I took C to one side and said I it
不对劲，我把 C 拉到一边说，这
sounds really stupid but I think I might
听起来真的很蠢，但我想我可能
be pregnant and she hooted with laughter
怀孕了，她大笑起来，
you've had a dodgy prawy your Linguini
你的 Linguini 有点不对劲，就是
that's all it is don't worry about
这样，不用担心 关于
it James went to the little Tes goes at
这件事，詹姆斯去了街尾的小特斯那里
the bottom of the street and got a
，
pregnancy test for me went in to the L
为我做了妊娠测试，去了 L
did the
做了
test Colleen came back from the toilet
测试，科琳从厕所回来，
and she she looked Ashen faced she you
她脸色苍白，你
know she just looked in shock and she
知道，她只是看起来很震惊 她
sat down at the at the table and said
坐在桌边说
I'm
pregnant I did four more tests that
怀孕了，我又做了四次检查
evening it just couldn't couldn't be
晚上，这不可能是
right but then five tests couldn't be
对的，但五次测试不可能是
wrong could they
错的，
I just remember saying to James oh my
我记得我对詹姆斯说，哦，
God everyone's going to think I've
天哪，每个人都会认为我
cheated on you he just said I know you
欺骗了你，他说我知道你
wouldn't do that call and you know I
不会 打那个电话，你知道我
trust you
implicitly I thought to myself what an
完全信任你，我心里想，他真是个
amazing guy he wouldn't it wouldn't even
了不起的男人，他不会，他根本没
cross his mind that I'd be un faithful
想到我会对
to him he said
他不忠，他说
that everyone in so many vasectomies
每个人做了很多输精管切除术都
failed and
失败了，
he went on to say
他 继续说
sorry he went on to say that it was the
对不起他继续说那是
original baby we' made a mistake it was
原来的婴儿我们犯了一个错误那是
the original baby coming back because it
原来的婴儿回来了因为
we we Wen we shouldn't have done what we
我们我们文我们不应该做我们
did that um it was a gift from
所做的嗯那是礼物
God I was 41 years old I'd had a
天啊，我当时已经 41 岁了，
difficult pregnancy previously I didn't
之前怀孕的时候很困难，我
want any more children
不想再要孩子了，
but I got no choice cuz I couldn't I
但我别无选择，因为我不能，我
couldn't not go through with
不能不坚持下去，
it so when Colleen fell pregnant again I
所以当 Colleen 再次怀孕的时候，我
thought the fcty is is final what's
想 fcty 是最终版本
going on here
这里发生了什么事
[Applause]
[掌声]
it was James and M second Christmas
这是詹姆斯和 M 第二次
together and there was just a funny
一起过圣诞节，
atmosphere in the room the girls were a
房间里的气氛很奇怪，女孩们
little bit gider than normal and do you
比平时有点兴奋，你
know when you think there's something
知道吗，当你觉得这里发生了什么事，
going on here but I don't know what it
但我不知道那
is and then James is saying oh that tree
是什么，然后 詹姆斯说，哦，那棵树
look a bit odd and there was a little
看起来有点奇怪，
black book sitting in the branches it
树枝上放着一本黑色的小书，
said Colleen Scott's wedding diary on
the front of the little book and James
小书的封面上写着科琳·斯科特的结婚日记，詹姆斯
turned around and looked at him and he
转过身看着他，他
just said will you marry
说你愿意嫁给
me turned out we'd already been and
我吗 原来我们已经去过那里，和
spoken to my sister and my mom and this
我姐姐还有我妈妈谈过了，这
book had the whole wedding planned and
本书里有整个婚礼的计划，
he opened one it would say wedding cake
他打开一本，上面写着婚礼蛋糕
tase in and there'd be one initial dress
试吃，还有一件最初的礼服，
fit in and um meet the wedding planner
然后嗯，见见婚礼策划师
and all the way through to marry me at
一路走来，在
this time and date at wiard home and
那个时间和日期在 wiard 家里嫁给我，
then the honeymoon to Vegas and the
然后去拉斯维加斯度蜜月，
hotel we were stopping at the whole
我们住的酒店整个
wedding was arranged in a family full of
婚礼都安排在一个满是
woman grandmother mother daughters to
女人、祖母、母亲、女儿的家庭里，再
have another another man um it was a a
有一个男人，嗯， 是一个
nice change he was such a big part for
很好的改变，他为我们的生活带来了巨大的改变，
lives we loved him and what could be
我们爱他，还有什么
better than them getting married
比他们结婚更好的呢
it was a life and death moment for
对
herself and for the
她自己和
baby doors were being flung open I was
孩子来说，这是生死攸关的时刻，门被猛地打开，我
being whizzed on a corridor there just
被带到走廊上，
the lights flashing past
灯光闪烁，
up it's just utter
一片
chaos I think really I was just
混乱，我想我只是
selfishly scared I was going to lose my
自私地害怕 我差点要失去我的
twin it was just awful
双胞胎兄弟了，这太可怕了
remember waking up and my sister being
记得我醒来的时候，我的姐姐
beside me at the bed don't know where
在我床边，不知道
James was at this point first thing I
詹姆斯当时在哪里，我
said to Ken was where's my
对肯说的第一件事就是我的
baby just CM down he's okay they've
宝宝在哪里，他刚刚倒下了 好的，他们已经把他
taken into special care baby unit he's
送到了特别护理婴儿病房，他
going to be all right
会
within May another a week they
在 5 月份康复，再过一周他们
discharged him back home which was
就让他出院回家了，这真是
amazing it was a really happy day when
太棒了，
we could finally go and register
我们终于可以去登记
Charlie's
查理的
birth proud there was he was all legal
出生了，这真是一个快乐的一天，很自豪他已经出生了 合法
and in this world and safe yeah
，在这个世界上，安全，是的，
fantastic day
美好的一天，
this is actually Charlie's birth
这实际上是查理的出生
certificate and it's got James Scott the
证明，上面有詹姆斯·斯科特，
father occupation
父亲，职业
firefighter James was amazing with
消防员，詹姆斯对
Charlie he most doting dad he played
查理的音乐很着迷，他是最溺爱查理的父亲，他
with him the girls loved Charlie and we
和他一起玩，女孩们都爱查理，我们
were at we were just a happy
在我们 我们是一个幸福
settled family it was a really lovely
安定的家庭，我们真的很幸福
happy
time quite a while into our relationship
在我们交往了一段时间后，
we decided to have a day out and took a
我们决定出去玩一天，去了
trip to Alton
Towers we waiting to go on one
奥尔顿塔，我们等着去玩一个
particular ride when this guy came over
特别的游乐设施，这时一个家伙走到
to James obviously knowing him and said
詹姆斯面前，显然认识他，他说，
um you were right Wilson and I'm
嗯，你是对的，威尔逊，我 我
thinking it's weird thing to say so I
觉得这么说很奇怪所以我
said that was odd why did he call you
说这很奇怪为什么他叫你
Wilson he went oh is being a Five
威尔逊他说哦是五
Fighter we all have nicknames for each
斗士我们都有彼此的昵称
other so they used to always say where
所以他们过去总是说
there's a will there's a way so my w
有志者事竟成所以我的
nickname was Will and he just said will
昵称 是威尔，他只是说
you all right Wilson as you would and
你好吗威尔逊，就像你愿意
all right okay and both my daughter and
一样，好吧，我和我女儿都
I perfect
完全
sense the run up to the wedding I got
感觉到了婚礼的临近，我
swept up in the excitement of it
沉浸在婚礼的兴奋之中
all James took me to meet Donna the
詹姆斯带我去见唐娜
wedding Planet had a big folder all
Planet 有一个大文件夹，里面全
about suggestions and ideas and we
是建议和想法，我们
discussed what I would like and how her
讨论了我想要什么，以及她
and James would make this dream come
和 James 如何实现这个梦想
[音乐] 有
true one day I found James sitting on
一天，我发现 James 坐在
our
我们的
bed he said he he found a lump and he
床上，他说他发现了一个肿块，他 我们
was scared
很害怕，
we told him to make an appointment to go
我们告诉他要预约
to get it checked
去检查，然后
out went along to the first appointment
with him and James said okay I'll I'll
和他一起去了第一次预约， 詹姆斯说好的，我会
go in on my
自己去的，
own he came out of that
他从
appointment just said that the look on
预约中出来，只是说
the doctor's face that he thought it
医生脸上的表情让他觉得这
wasn't going to be good news and he just
不是好消息，他只是
had this feeling that it it was going to
有这种感觉 我会
be cancer
得癌症，
I felt so scared for him I mean he was
我为他感到害怕，他是
such a good guy and why did awful things
那么好的人，为什么可怕的事情
keep
总是
happening getting married should be the
发生，结婚应该是
happiest day of your life and if you've
你一生中最幸福的一天，如果你
got a potential cancer diagnosis hanging
有潜在的癌症诊断
over your head we decided to to put the
在你的头上我们决定
wedding on held they couldn't get
推迟婚礼他们不能
married how could they get married when
结婚他们怎么能结婚当
this was hanging over the head it made
这件事悬而未决的时候
sense to me at the time that they did
我当时觉得他们
cancel that wedding
取消了婚礼是合理的
he had an
他不久前有一个
appointment not long afterwards at The
约会 之后在
Woodlands hospital and he took Charlie's
伍德兰兹医院，他带着查理的
godmom um Avon with him just for all
教母雅芳一起去，只是为了
support I was at work so James said
支持我，当时我在工作，所以詹姆斯说
there's no point you sitting in the
你坐在这里的候诊室里没有意义，
waiting room here and so Avon agreed and
雅芳同意了，然后
went setting off the skies had gone a
就出发了，天色已经
bit dark and she thought it's going to
有点暗了 她以为要
pour down with rain so she decided to
下大雨了，所以决定
head back to the car and when she got
回到车上，当她回来的时候，
back James was sitting on the wall near
詹姆斯正坐在 在汽车旁边的墙上，
the car so she was quite surprised he
所以她很惊讶他
was soon and he was just sat scrolling
很快就来了，他只是坐在那里刷
on his phone and Avon said wow you were
手机，雅芳说哇你真
quick you know is your appointment been
快你知道你的预约被
cancelled and they went oh no no doesn't
取消了吗，他们说哦不不不不需要很
take long when they give you good
长时间 告诉你一个好
news it' been a misdiagnosis that can
消息，这是一次误诊，
look like a lump in the position it was
看起来像是一个肿块，在它所在的位置，所以
at so after that because everything was
在那之后，因为一切都
good James got straight back onto Donna
很好，詹姆斯直接回到了唐娜，
The Wedding Planner was all back on
婚礼策划师又回来了，
again he's mom she was quite a
他是妈妈，她是一个相当
successful sports agent he lived in the
成功的运动员 经纪人他住在
south of
France she'd call James and quite often
法国南部她会打电话给詹姆斯，
if it was he would take it on his iPad
如果是的话，他会用他的 iPad 打电话，
she'd be hi Colleen are you all right
她会问科琳你还好吗
not long after charie was born his mom
查理出生后不久，他的妈妈
decided she would like to beef an early
决定她想要牛肉
inheritance to all her children James
她所有的孩子都继承了一笔早期遗产，詹姆斯
didn't say how much this was but it it
没有说这笔遗产有多少，但它
did imply it was you know
确实暗示了这是一笔
generous I didn't realize James's mom
慷慨的遗产，我没想到詹姆斯的妈妈
was quite as wealthy as she is and it
竟然这么富有，这让
was it was a surprise to me because I
我很惊讶，因为 我
didn't really know much about his
不太了解他的
mom he was taking coling out for nice
妈妈，他带着孩子出去
meals he was taken away for weekends
吃好吃的， 周末去
there was the spa at ramside Hall they
拉姆赛德大厅的水疗中心，他们的
had certainly had a lovely
lifestyle as time went on and the
生活确实很美好，随着时间的推移，关于
stories of the money you know more money
金钱的故事，你知道，
coming in from his mother the days out
从他母亲那里得到的钱越来越多，外出度假
would become more
变得越来越
outlandish so instead of going to watch
离奇，所以他们没有去看
A Match in the stands we went to
在看台上看比赛时，我们去了
hospitality
酒店
Suites James realized obviously I had
套房詹姆斯意识到我显然有
these BCT properties of my own and his
自己的 BCT 房产，而他
mom owned a lot of different properties
妈妈自己也拥有很多不同的房产，
herself and Colleen because she worked
而科琳因为她
in property could work from home and
在房地产行业工作，所以可以在家工作，
that way she wouldn't be missing Charlie
这样她就不会 不会想念查理，
because Charlie would be around more
因为查理会更多地
with her it just seemed
和她在一起，这真的
really really
great I was incredibly close to James
很棒，我和詹姆斯非常亲近，他
would come around to see me would have a
会来看我，喝杯
coffee and we' just been chatting he
咖啡，我们只是聊天，他
said oh my mom's got this idea she
说哦，我妈妈有这个想法，她
wanted to look after her son her
想照顾她的儿子、
grandson and Colleen and was interested
孙子和科琳，并有兴趣
in opening a bar or restaurant and
开一家酒吧或餐馆，并
giving it their family name which was
以他们的姓氏
Scott Karen had inherited some money
斯科特·卡伦
when my dad had passed away some years
在我父亲去世的几年
earlier we both did Karen still had hers
前继承了一些钱，我们都继承了卡伦的遗产
James never actually asked me to invest
詹姆斯 他实际上从未要求我投资，
he just talked about it a lot and the
他只是谈论了很多，而且
fact of it being a family business I'm
事实上这是一个家族企业，我是
in the family I wouldn't mind being in
家族的一员 我不介意参加
this this was an opportunity for Karen
这个活动，因为这是凯伦的一个机会，她可以
to take some of her inheritance and
利用她的部分遗产
invest it in a good business where she
投资于一个好的企业，在那里她
could work for
可以
herself so we went to the property we
自己工作，所以我们去了房子，我们
viewed it we walked around inside had a
看了房子，我们在里面走了一圈，
look all these brilliant ideas of what
看了所有的东西 这些关于
it would look like and how you know
它会是什么样子以及你知道
they'd run it and it was just fantastic
他们会如何运营它的绝妙想法，这真是太棒了
so in total I
所以我总共
invested £55,000 in the businesses there
投资了55,000英镑在这些企业上，其中
was £25,000 at Scots and then a further
25,000英镑在苏格兰，然后另外
£5,000 for contingency for things going
5,000英镑作为应急资金
wrong on top that and then £25,000 into
除此之外，我还向 Gini 投资了 25,000 英镑，
gini but that was didn't touch on how
但这并没有涉及到
much I actually invested in him
我实际投资他的金额
and because he was doing work on my
，因为他正在对我的房产进行工作，
properties and I was I was giving him
而我给他
money to carry out works in the
钱让他进行 这些
properties it was it was everything I
房产就是我
had when I first met James back in 2016
2016 年第一次见到詹姆斯时拥有的一切，
I knew fairly little about him other
我对他知之甚少，
than that he had these ambitious plans
只知道他有雄心勃勃的计划
and he really wanted to give
，他真的想给
opportunities to other small local
其他当地小
businesses I was really excited with
企业提供机会，我很高兴
giving me and media Sav the the
能给我 和媒体 Sav 有
opportunity to be part of that Journey
机会参与这次旅程，
with him doing some work on branding and
与他一起做一些 为
um marketing stuff for other companies
related to James and also Colleen and
与詹姆斯、科琳和
Karen including this Gemini properties
凯伦相关的其他公司从事品牌和营销工作，包括这个双子座地产
website and branding just thinking well
网站和品牌，只是在想，
if this is just the start of it where
如果这只是一个开始，
could it
它能
go he was a a nice guy down to earth
走向何方，他是一个脚踏实地的好人，
considering the millions he had
考虑到 他已经投入了数百万美元
bankrolled to do these projects he'd
来做这些项目，他
approached me to do some videography
找到我
work with this big Grand uh Newcastle
为这个大纽卡斯尔的
key side project from a couple of
关键项目做一些摄像工作，在几次
business meetings all of a sudden being
商务会议之后，他突然被
invited to VIP boxers for Premier League
邀请参加英超联赛的 VIP 拳击
football matches and inviting to his
比赛，并邀请 他的
wedding like I'd only met him three or
婚礼就像我只见过他三
four times it was it was a bit surreal
四次一样，在很多方面都有点超现实，
in many in many
ways with that Scots things were not
苏格兰的事情并没有
happening as quickly as I would have
像我希望的那样迅速发生，
liked there always seemed to be some
似乎总是有某种
reason that there were was problems were
原因 问题
cropping up or things had to be
不断出现，或者事情不得不
cancelled so I spoke to my sister and
取消，所以我跟我姐姐谈了，
she was hurt and James was just he was
她很伤心，詹姆斯只是觉得
absolutely horrified that I um doubted
很震惊，我怀疑
him I felt absolutely wretched this is
他，我感到非常痛苦，这是
James this is my sister's fiance he's
詹姆斯，这是我姐姐的未婚夫，他是
part of our family we love him but it
我们全家都爱他，但这一切
was all my money in the world had a lot
都 我把世界上的钱都
invested in that if this didn't work out
投入了进去，如果这件事没有成功，
then really I was up [\h__\h] creek without
那么我真的就陷入了困境，没有
paddle I didn't even invite James for
桨，我甚至没有邀请詹姆斯来做
any of the work we done until after
我们做的任何工作，直到
significant amounts of Bill had been
比尔的大部分钱都被付清了
sort of built up by that point but it
到那个时候就已经积累起来了，但
was always like oh the accountants got
总是像会计师
it at hand um AB Brad there was always
拿到了，嗯，AB Brad，总是有
something but it was always believable
事情发生，但总是可信的，
because we still involved with all the
因为我们仍然与所有同事保持联系，
colleagues that and at the point we were
而且我们
still going to his wedding
仍然要去他的
a few days before the wedding day James
婚礼前几天，詹姆斯
was traveling to Texas to bring his two
正前往德克萨斯州，把他的两个
girls m McKenzie back he was so excited
女儿麦肯齐带回来，他非常兴奋，
I was really excited I was finally going
我真的很兴奋，我终于
to meet his
可以见到他的
girls then when he got to the states he
女儿了，然后当他到达美国时，他
went
quiet tried phoning but his phone was
安静了下来。 试着打电话，但他的手机
always switched off and then for well he
总是关机，然后他说他
with his girls he was going to be back
和他的女儿们
in a couple of days I was a bit
过几天就会回来，我有点
unsettled but not excessively
不安，但也不是太
worried then James sent her a
担心，然后詹姆斯给她发了一条
message heard the door open and in comes
信息，听到门开了
James he said we're not getting married
詹姆斯进来了，他说我们不会结婚
James said the wedding couldn't go ahead
詹姆斯说婚礼不能继续，
just broke down into te years just
只能拖延几年，
that's a Devastation his ex-wife it just
这真是一场灾难，他的前妻又
played her old tricks just got him all
耍了老花招，把他带到
the way to Texas and just refused to let
了德克萨斯，还不让
the girls come back with him so I said
女孩们和他一起回来，所以我 说
well this is awful James but after the
这太糟糕了詹姆斯但婚礼结束后
wedding we'll do a big party we'll get
我们会办一个大派对我们会把
the girls over then and we can make it
女孩们请过来我们可以把它打造成
just a special but he was having none of
一个特别的但他没有这样
it did this point try and like no come
做这一点尝试就像没有
on this is getting silly now we' just
来吧 现在变得很愚蠢了，我们
cancelled a wedding a couple of months
几个月前刚刚取消了一场婚礼，
ago we can't do that to everyone but it
我们不能这样对待每个人，但他
was adamant he couldn't get married
坚持说，如果
without his daughters there but he would
没有他的女儿们，他就不能结婚，但他会
get on in touch with Donna The Wedding
联系婚礼
Planner the deranging of a wedding Daye
策划师唐娜 扰乱了婚礼当天
and when he's sure that his girls could
，当他确定他的女孩们可以
come and at that point it just said no
来的时候，他就说不，
I'm not telling everyone that it's
我不会告诉所有人它又被
cancelled again
取消了，
I'd been his Champion to that point I
我一直是他的冠军，直到那时，我
just checked out of it then I no NOP I
只是检查了一下，然后我才没有 不，
didn't even want to talk to him
really when I first heard the wedding
当我第一次听说婚礼
was off I remember thinking at the time
取消的时候，我甚至不想和他说话，我记得当时我在想 时间
wow like that's quite a big thing to do
哇，这是一件大事
call off a wedding what all this time
取消婚礼花了这么多时间
and expense has gone into James said
和金钱詹姆斯说，
that on the actual wedding day we should
在真正的婚礼当天，我们应该
have a day
有一天的
away you do
时间，你确实
make a nice memory and not just dwell on
留下了美好的回忆，而不是只沉湎于
the fact that it should have been the
事实上那应该是
day we were getting married we decided
我们结婚的日子，所以我们决定
to go for the day to scarra and just
去斯卡拉度过这一天，
have a nice family day
out on the Saturday that they were due
在他们结婚的那个星期六，度过一个愉快的家庭日，
to get married we had nothing to do Ryan
我们没什么事要做，瑞恩
and I because we'd planned to be having
和我，因为我们' 我计划
a wonderful day at wyard Hall and
在 wyard Hall 度过美好的一天，
celebrating my sister's
庆祝我姐姐的
wedding Jam had um recently had a lot of
婚礼 Jam 最近在我拥有的
boilers in stored in different rental
不同出租物业中存放了很多锅炉，
properties I owned and I needed to check
我需要
up on some maintenance issues and when
检查一些维护问题，当
we were there I thought oh I see this
我们在那里时，我想 哦，我看到这个
brand spank and expensive new boiler
that's been installed we looked in the
安装好的昂贵的新锅炉，我们看了看
boiler
锅炉
cupboard there was a boiler in there but
柜，里面有一个锅炉，但
it looked a bit
看起来有点
Dusty I also went around and looked at
脏，我还四处看了看
the rest of the property and the amount
房子的其他部分，以及
that Karen had paid to James to get this
凯伦支付的金额 詹姆斯完成这项
work done was you know a bit
工作有点
excessive Ryan phoned the boiler
过分了瑞恩打电话给锅炉
installation company and found out that
安装公司，发现
that model hadn't been been in
那个型号没有 已经投入
production for many
生产很多
years so I then decided to phone another
年了，所以我决定打电话给另一个
tenant who also had a new boiler
也安装了新锅炉的租户，
installed but she confirmed that there
但她确认
no boiler had been put in that property
那处房产里没有安装锅炉，
I None of the maintenance she' asked for
for months that James had been sorting
几个月来她要求的维修都没有，詹姆斯
out none of it had been done it' all
整理一下，一切都没有完成，都是
been paid for by me but none if it had
我付钱的，但如果已经
been
done I found Colleen James could hear a
完成了，我发现科琳詹姆斯可以听到
bit of the conversation he kept saying
一些谈话，他一直说
let me speak to her let me speak to her
让我和她说话，让我和她说话，
oh I can't believe it I can't believe it
哦，我可以 '不相信我不敢相信
he'd been let down badly and heads were
他被严重地辜负了，
going to roll on the Monday morning I
周一早上就要下台了，我
didn't believe him actually and I knew
其实不相信他，我知道
that there was something really badly
有些事情真的很
wrong I phoned when you ataul where the
糟糕，我打电话的时候你在哪里
the wedding was and I spoke to the
婚礼是这样的，我和
manager asked is the Scott wedding going
经理问斯科特的婚礼
on
today the gentleman said never heard
今天是否举行，那位先生说我从来没有听说过
name he says no we've actually got a
名字，他说不，我们今天实际上有一个
wedding on today that's been booked for
婚礼，已经预订了
months so this all started snowboarding
几个月，所以这一切都开始了
it felt like care if was going to slow
感觉就像关心正在慢慢
motion because how could that
变慢，因为那怎么可能呢？
be Colleen had been dealing with a
科琳一直在处理
wedding plan she'd had emails and
她收到的电子邮件中的婚礼计划，而且
that was the moment that it all started
就在一切开始明朗的那一刻，
unravel I found Colleen and told her to
我找到了科琳，让她
excuse herself and go to the ladies cuz
去女厕所，因为
I'd got something to tell her but to act
我有事要告诉她，但要
normally in front of James and not allow
在詹姆斯面前表现得正常一点，不要让
his suspicions I said to James just nip
他产生怀疑，我对詹姆斯说
into the toilet went into the ladies ran
溜进厕所去了女厕所跑
Karen back and she said you need to sit
凯伦回来她说你需要
down she said I'm so so sorry call I
坐下她说我真的很抱歉打电话我
don't know how to tell you this but
不知道该怎么告诉你但
there was never any wedd done good hear
从来没有任何婚礼做得好听到
her teeth chattering in Tru and I was
她的牙齿打颤 在 Tru 我
saying to her you mustn't let him know
对她说你一定不能让他知道
get him back to Chesler Street we need
让他回到 Chesler 街我们需要和
to talk to him we need to find what the
他谈谈我们需要找出到底
hell's going on and what's he done so
发生了什么以及他做了什么所以
somehow I went out just said Karen and
不知何故我出去只是说 Karen 和
Ry have had a massive bust up I'm really
Ry 我真的很
worried for Karen I want to go see my
担心凯伦，我想去看我的
sister now he knew how close we were he
妹妹，现在他知道我们有多亲密，他
couldn't argue with that she deserved
无法否认她应该获得
the Academy Award for playing that
奥斯卡奖，因为她
part on the RO and staring at the window
在 RO 中扮演了那个角色，盯着
reing from what K's just told me
从 K 刚刚告诉我的事情来看，他
actually said to James you would never
实际上对詹姆斯说，你永远不会
lie to me would you and I actually I had
骗我，对吧？ 我实际上我
to hammer it home so I said so if you
必须把它敲回去所以我说如果你
lie to me now you're saying Charlie
现在骗我你是说查理
would drop down dead now if you told a
会倒下死现在如果你告诉一个
light yep I would never lie to you um I
光是的我永远不会骗你嗯我
just at that point thought my God who
只是在那时想我的天啊谁
are
you what about my money now and and is
你现在怎么处理我的钱了？
it all okay is my money
一切都还好吗？我的钱
Sav M phoned this solicor firm and they
Sav M 给这家律师事务所打了电话，他们
confirmed that the name that we'd had
确认，我们之前和
for who James had been dealing with
James 打过交道的那个人的名字
didn't exist and not only did he exist
根本不存在，而且他不仅存在
there was no branch in Newcastle
纽卡斯尔没有分行，
anyway I answered the phone and Carol is
无论如何，我接了电话，卡罗尔
just hysterical it's all lies he's lied
歇斯底里，全是谎言，他
about everything my money isn't safe I
对一切都撒谎，我的钱不安全，我
was just blurting it out she just said
只是脱口而出，她只是说
we're coming up we're coming up to
我们马上就来，我们马上就来
confront him you know keep him at the
对质 你知道，让他待在
house James obviously heard part of this
家里詹姆斯显然听到了部分内容，
turned around and I just said to him
转过身来，我只是问他
what have you
你
done he just carried on driving LED on
做了什么，他只是继续开车，开着 LED 灯
to the driveway jumped out the car
来到车道上，跳下车，
he passed Charlie to me and just said I
他把查理递给我，只是说我
just need a
只是 需要一
minute jumped in the car and drove
分钟跳上车开
off we missed him by about half a minute
走了我们错过了他大约半分钟
because just as we were driving into
因为就在我们开车进入
Colleen Street he drove past us and he
科琳街他开车经过我们，他
had this cheeky
有一个厚脸皮的
little you know like I've got you I've
小你知道，就像我得到你一样，我
heard you just looked like the cat that
听说你看起来就像一只
got the cream and this little wave was
得到奶油的猫，这个小波浪就是
was the moment that I knew beyond a
那一刻我知道超越了
shadow of a doubt that my money had
一个阴影 怀疑我的钱
gone but the hardest bit was telling
没了，但最难的是告诉
Colleen um that was
科琳，这太
heartbreaking she she looked wrecked by
令人心碎了，她看起来很崩溃，
it she looked so upset and and and so
她看起来很沮丧，很
hurt absolutely
devastated whatever we found out from
伤心，无论我们发现什么，从那一刻起，事情都会
that point was going to be bad
变得很糟糕，
we walked into the police station and I
我们走进了 警察局，我
was just blurting it all out all my
脱口而出，我所有的
money's been stolen he's stolen it all
钱都被偷了，他偷了所有钱，
he's he's a liar he's a thief he's a
他是个骗子，是个小偷，是个
cheat we had his registration of his car
骗子，我们有他的汽车登记，
policeman went away and came back and
警察走了，然后回来跟我
said well this is registered to a Greg
说，这辆车登记在一个 格雷格·
Wilson
威尔逊
Ryan and I looked at each other and said
瑞安和我面面相觑，说
and who is Greg Wilson because we'd
谁是格雷格·威尔逊，因为我们
never heard that
从来没有听说过这个
name and that was the tip of the
名字，这只是音乐的
iceberg my name is Chris an and I'm
冰山一角，我叫克里斯，我是
detective with Durham Police I've been a
达勒姆警察局的侦探。 我当了
police officer for 27 years and a
27年的警察 我已经当了
detective for 23
23
years so I came in just on a normal
年的侦探，所以在一个普通的
routine day into the C office and was
日常工作日，我来到 C 办公室，被
allocated this case I read through it
分配到这个案子，我读了一遍，
and couldn't quite believe me eyes what
简直不敢相信我所
I was
reading James hadn't come back at this
读到的内容，詹姆斯那时还没有回来
point he wasn't answering anybody's
他没有接听任何人的
calls or texts then let's try and find
电话或短信，那么让我们试着
out who this Greg Wilson is maybe you
找出这个格雷格·威尔逊是谁，也许你
can tell us where James has gone you go
可以告诉我们詹姆斯去哪里了，你
to social media first to find anybody
these days don't you so with putting
现在先去社交媒体找人，不是吗，所以把
Greg Wilson he got up a raft of
格雷格·威尔逊放进去 我问了好几个
different Greg Wilsons none of them were
不同的 Greg Wilson，他们都没有
right my daughter Laura
答对，我女儿 Laura
said long shot let's just check all the
说可能性不大，我们去查一下
Wilsons in the Darlington area maybe we
Darlington 地区所有的 Wilson 吧，也许我们
can find this Greg Wilson's family
可以找到这个 Greg Wilson 的
member or something and they can point
家人或者其他人，他们可以给
us in the right
我们指明正确的
direction and then we found a Facebook
方向 然后我们发现了一个 Facebook 个人
profile
资料
and there was a smiling photo of this
，里面有一张这位
woman with
女士和
James I just turned in Hover to my
James 的微笑照片，我转过身对
family and said oh my God James isn't
家人说，天哪，James 不是
James he's Greg
James，他是 Greg
Wilson I just went into shock at that
Wilson，我当时就震惊了 那时
point I just couldn't believe what I was
我简直不敢相信我所
seeing started to shake just felt sick
看到的一切 摇晃只是感觉不舒服
I decided I needed to get some more
我决定我需要得到更多的
answers and find out what was going
答案，找出到底发生了什么，
on and the best person I thought who
我认为最
could do this was his mom our James had
适合做这件事的人是他的妈妈，我们的詹姆斯
always said that his mom didn't do
总是说他的妈妈不做
social media she was too private a
社交 媒体她太注重
person so I'd never I've a lot for her
隐私了，所以我从来没有。我对她有很多了解，
but we'd found
但我们在 Facebook 上找到了
Facebook I C WR the number she answered
她接听的号码，
I said just before we go any further can
我说在我们继续之前，
I ask you one question please can I ask
我可以问你一个问题吗？
the name of your son it's an odd thing
你儿子的名字，这个问题
to ask but of course he's called Greg
问得有点奇怪，但他当然叫格雷格
and I said well that's not who I know
，我说，嗯，这不是我认识的人，
him to be I know him to be James Scott
我知道他是詹姆斯·斯科特，
and she just gasped
她只是喘着气
so while talking to James's mom
所以在和詹姆斯的妈妈说话的时候，
obviously I asked all the questions and
显然我 问了所有的问题，
was he going back to his wife was that
他是否回到他妻子身边，
where he was the whole time living this
他是否一直过着
double life were they still together his
双重生活，他们是否还在一起，他
mom told me that he was very much still
妈妈告诉我，他仍然和
in his wife's
妻子的
life obviously his
生活在一起，显然他
mom hasn't had a clue either she's been
妈妈还没有 她也被
told to pack aize about me she' been
告知要打包我的东西，她被
told that I own lad of property that
告知我自己的小伙子
James was working for my business in
詹姆斯为我的房地产公司工作，
property the woman had been fed nearly
这个女人几乎和
as many lives as I had she'd never owned
我一样，吃过很多苦头，她从来没有拥有过
her own property she'd never been a
自己的房产，她从来没有当过
sports agent she' never lived in the
体育经纪人，她从来没有在
south of France lie after lie after
法国南部生活过，一个又一个的谎言 之后
lie when he was working and he was doing
撒谎，当时他在工作，正在
shifts and he was away overnight he was
轮班，他晚上不在家，
with his wife and his family
和他的妻子和家人在一起
Ryan phoned Washington fire station and
瑞恩打电话给华盛顿消防局，
said did they have a James Scott
问他们有没有詹姆斯·斯科特的
firefighter that worked there and they
消防员在那里工作，他们
said no no no James Scott had ever
说没有，没有 詹姆斯·斯科特曾经在
worked there do you have a Greg Wilson
那里工作过，你们那里有格雷格·威尔逊
As A Firefighter working there no i'
消防员吗？没有，我
never heard that name either so we knew
也没有听说过这个名字，所以我们
then that he wasn't a firefighter
当时就知道他也不是一名消防员
either but he had the outfit and all his
但他有制服，所有的
shifts where was he going
班次都在那里 他要去哪里？
who were these girls that were his
这些女孩是谁？她们是他的
daughters that were sending me cards and
女儿，给我寄卡片，
buying me presents they didn't exist
给我买礼物。她们并不存在。
he'd obviously just been taking stock
他显然只是
images off the internet for lots of the
从网上下载了很多
stuff they weren't daughters they were
图片。她们不是女儿，她们
just you know
只是 你知道
whoever if these people didn't exist who
如果这些人不存在的话
was he talking to
他在和谁说话
had he had a vect toy well that's in the
如果他有一个 vect 玩具那么这就是
evidence the fact that he made up a
证据 事实上，他编造了一个
false name they had a child together
假名，他们有了一个孩子，
there's no real crime in
这不算什么犯罪，
that my job was to focus on the criminal
因为我的工作是关注犯罪
side he was taking money off Colleen's
方面，他从科琳的妹妹那里拿钱，然后
sister and using it for his own
把它用于自己的
purposes when I found found out that the
目的，当我发现
Investments had invested hadn't they
投资 如果他们
didn't exist and all my money had gone
不存在，我所有的钱都没了，
it was
这太
humiliating I might have lost every
丢脸了，我可能已经失去了
penny I had but I just felt absolutely
我所有的钱，但我只是
awful for
为
Colleen to found all this
科琳发现这一切感到非常难过，
out I felt heartbroken for
我为她感到心碎。
her it was devastating
if it wasn't for Charlie I mean he was
如果不是查理，那真是太糟糕了，我的意思是，他是
my Saving
我的
Grace I had to get out of bed I had to
救命恩人，我不得不起床，我必须
go for the Motions this was the card you
去做动议，这是你
posted from a letter box weeks after
从信箱里寄出的卡片，在
he'd run off he was aware at this point
他逃跑几周后，他知道 这一点
that I knew he wasn't James Scot and he
我知道他不是詹姆斯斯科特，他
was Greg Wilson so he doesn't even
是格雷格威尔逊，所以他甚至没有
pretend to be James Scott in this card
假装是詹姆斯斯科特在这张卡片上，
and it just says call I'm sorry I do
它只是说，对不起，我
love you and Charlie to the ends of the
爱你和查理直到最后
Earth miss you both and love you both
地球想念你们，爱你们，
please take care sorry and know my love
请保重，对不起，知道我爱
princess and then kisses
公主，然后
again that was that and this was the
再次亲吻，就是这样 这是
last correspondence uh that I had with
我和詹姆斯的最后一次通信，
James and he's never contacted me
since once I'd had the conversation with
自从我和
Detective Bentham and it became clear
边沁侦探谈话后，他就再也没有联系过我，很明显，
that we weren't going to be prepared for
我们不会为
the work we'd done I was like really
我们所做的工作做好准备。 就像真的很
pissed off actually you know he he he
生气，你知道，他用
had the wall over everybody's eyes and
墙遮住了每个人的眼睛，
he he's done it really
他做得
well he went on the run but I traced him
很好，他逃走了，但我
um through through an online bank
通过网上银行
account so I literally sort of flew out
账户追踪到他，所以我真的飞出了
the office grabbed the car keys drove as
办公室，抓起了
fast as I possibly could down to where
我尽可能快地开车到了
Greg Wilson was living knocked on the
格雷格·威尔逊住的地方，敲了敲
door and walked in and there he was sat
门，然后走了进去，他坐在
there really cool really calm when I
那里，非常冷静，当我
told him why I was investigating he said
告诉他我为什么要调查他时，他说了
something along the lines of yes it was
类似这样的话：是的
me in all the time that he was spoken to
我一直在和他谈话，
that's the only real admission that that
这是唯一真正的承认，
that we
got okay the date is the 18th of August
得到了好的日期是8月18日，
what is your full name please Greg James
请问你的全名是什么，格雷格·詹姆斯·
Wilson right Greg I arrested you on
威尔逊，对吧，格雷格，我因
suspicion of theft and fraud by false
涉嫌盗窃和诈骗逮捕了你 虚假
representation so the first question is
陈述，所以第一个问题
really simple are you responsible for
很简单，你是否有责任
that no comment in relation to to um
对于
Karen ker she tells me that she has paid
凯伦·克尔，我没有评论，她告诉我，她已经支付了
you um over the period uh of about 8
你大约 8 个
months in relation to businesses which
月的款项，涉及
you have allegedly set up she's paid you
你据称设立的企业，她已经支付了你
57,6
57,6
15690 uh to you do you agree with that
15690 呃，你同意吗 对此，你
no comment do you dispute that no did
没有评论，你有没有否认，
you tell them lies about all these
你有没有对他们撒谎
companies and all these things that you
，说你
were doing to con them out of money is
骗取了他们的钱财，
there anything that you can give to me
你能给我提供什么
that that that would be inocent
合理的
explanation as to what you've done no
解释吗？ 你做了什么，
com you were living a lie no com so when
你生活在谎言中，所以当
I arrested Greg Wilson There was uh
我逮捕格雷格·威尔逊的时候，
other people in the house and and
房子里还有其他人，
surprisingly I discovered um that one of
令人惊讶的是，我发现其中一个
the people was his new fiance he had
人是他的未婚妻，他
told told her that he worked um at
告诉她他 我在
catrick in the Army and quite often when
卡特里克陆军工作过，经常有
sort of military aircraft aircraft would
军用飞机
fly over um he would suggest that he
飞过，他会说他
might get called into work again a
可能会被叫去工作，这
complete lie he wasn't working for the
完全是谎言，他不是在
Army he wasn't even working uh I think
陆军工作，他甚至没有工作，呃，我 想想
through the day he would go out like as
他一整天都会出去，
though he was working and do what he
就像他 工作，做他
wanted to do and come back on a tea time
想做的事，下午茶时间回来，
and suggest that he' been to work he was
说他去上班了，他
well on his way to starting another
马上就要开始另一场
fraud because I'd lost my job as well as
诈骗了，因为我丢了工作，
having all the money stolen I couldn't
所有的钱都被偷了，我没法 无法
keep up with the properties I owned I
维持我拥有的财产我
tried for as long as I could and it got
尽了最大的努力，但到
to a point I had to ultimately admit
了最后我不得不承认
defeat and file for
失败并申请
bankruptcy one of the worst times of my
破产的地步，这是我一生中最糟糕的时刻之一
life Greg Wilson waited right until the
Greg Wilson 等待 直到
last minute to plead guilty uh it's no
最后一刻才认罪，嗯，
surprise to me to do that I'm pretty
我一点也不惊讶，我很
sure that he was waiting to see if
确定他在等着看
Colleen and caran really wanted to go
科琳和卡兰是否真的想
through with it to give evidence at
在法庭上提供证据，
court we're nice people and I think he
我们是好人， 我认为他
counted on us being nice nice and being
指望我们会很和善、很
soft and that's how we would behave but
温柔，这就是我们的行为方式，但
actually we've got cor off steel when it
实际上，当涉及到这件事时，我们已经铁石心肠了，
comes to it and he wasn't going to get
他不会轻易逃脱
away that
[音乐]的惩罚，他
easily really wanted some explanation
真的想要一些解释
and some answers that's all I've ever
还有一些答案，这就是我一直
wanted but I didn't get them just such a
想要的，但我没有得到它们，就像一个
coward we never quite got to the bottom
懦夫，我们从来没有 彻底弄清楚了是否
of was anybody else involved did Greg
有其他人参与其中，格雷格·
Wilson involve anybody else to help him
威尔逊是否有其他人帮助他
commit Commit This fraud uh that B is
实施这一欺诈行为，呃，B
still quite
仍然很
open-ended I think what he did was
开放，我认为他所做的
absolutely disgraceful but it was you've
绝对是可耻的，但这是你已经
got to admire somebody that can keep so
得到的 钦佩一个可以玩弄这么
many blls juggling and keep track of all
多谎言并追踪
his lies and if he'd only chosen to use
他所有谎言的人，如果他只选择用
his power for good rather than for evil
他的力量做善事而不是做恶事，
he could have conquered the
他就可以征服
world it did take me a while to even
世界，我确实花了一段时间才
consider meeting somebody else or having
考虑见面 和别人约会或者
a relationship but I did in time go on
谈恋爱，但后来我
to meet a really nice
遇到了一个非常好的
man I mean I was awful I made him
男人，我的意思是我表现得很糟糕，我让他
introduce me to all his family within
在前几次约会时就把我介绍给他的家人，
the first few dates and I had to check
我还得检查
his bank accounts and his birth
他的银行账户和出生
certificate and his passport and meet
证明 和他的护照，见见
all of his
他所有的
friends even despite everything I've
朋友，尽管我经历了这么多，但
been through I wasn't going to let James
我不会让詹姆斯·
Scott Define the rest of my life I don't
斯科特决定我的余生，我不再
hate the man anymore because I wouldn't
恨他了，因为我不会
give him that power and it's corrosive
给他 那种力量具有腐蚀性，
and so it's a bit like a car he used to
所以有点像他曾经
sit up front and always be beside me now
坐在我前面并一直坐在我旁边的车 现在
he's in the back seat and eventually be
他坐在后座上，最终被关
in the
在车尾箱里，
boot he's got no power anymore
他再也没有权力了
most of the cases that I see there's
我看到的大多数情况
usually a business aspect you're not
通常都是商业方面的问题，你并没有
really developing a a personal
真正
relationship with the people that you're
与人们建立个人关系 你
stealing
from for this
从这
one this one
个人那里偷来的这个
stood Tacoma woman defrauded friends of
塔科马女人骗取了朋友
more than half a million
超过五十万
dollars you don't want to admit that
美元你不想承认
you fell for it it's
你上当了这是
manipulation it's pulling on the
操纵它牵动着
heartstrings of people who actually
真正关心的人的心弦
care h just sorry the amount of harm
只是抱歉
that she caused in all of these amazing
她给这些令人惊叹的
communities it's frightening it's really
社区造成的伤害令人恐惧，这真的很
scary
可怕。
so Seattle is really really nerdy
西雅图真的是一个非常书呆子的
City we have a really vibrant comic book
城市，我们有一个非常活跃的漫画书
and anime convention scene a lot of
和动漫大会场景，很多
introverts the weirder more Niche stuff
内向的人，你越奇怪，就越有小众的东西
that you're into the more interesting
'你越感兴趣，
you
are the reesing in Seattle is very
西雅图的生活就越
vibrant it's really neat there's a big
有趣，这真的很棒，西雅图有一个很大的
geek type of scene in Seattle if you're
极客场景，如果你是
part of one Community you have your toes
一个社区的一部分，你就会接触
in some of these other communities
到其他一些社区
it's a group of fantastic
这是一群很棒的
Misfits my name is Aon I'm a software
Misfits，我的名字叫 Aon，我是一名软件
engineer specifically I'm a video game
工程师，具体来说，我是一名视频游戏
programmer programming how the
程序员，负责编程，设计
characters move how the controls work
角色如何移动，如何控制游戏，
stuff like that I really enjoy making
诸如此类的事情，我真的很喜欢做一些
things that make other people happy and
让别人开心的事情，
when I'm not at work I am an eagle scout
当我 我不在工作，我是一名鹰级童子军，
I really like to volunteer and be of
我非常喜欢做志愿者，为
service and kind of help my community
社区提供服务，
out my graduating class literally had
我的毕业班
one woman in it cuz it was big nerdy
里只有一个女生，因为那是一所书呆子气很浓的
school so not a lot of
学校，所以没有多少
women uh went there so back in 2007 I
女生去那里 2007 年的时候，
would say I was definitely looking for a
我当时肯定在寻找一段
relationship I was kind of aware what a
恋情，我当时也意识到了约会音乐
disaster it it can be
可能会是一场灾难，
dating so one day I was going through
所以有一天我在浏览
Craigslist and and I came across this
Craigslist 时看到了这个
ad it was essentially a rant about how
广告，基本上就是 抱怨
white guys in Seattle which is the
西雅图的白人男性（
primary demographic here um weren't
这里的主要人口统计）对黑人女性不
really interested or were afraid to date
感兴趣或害怕约会，
black
women my first message honestly was
我的第一条消息说实话是
apologetic so we're conversing a little
道歉，所以我们聊了一下
bit
we sent a couple pictures back and
我们回了几张照片 和
forth was such a big deal to get a date
约会是一件大事，
at that
point we met at the offleash dog
我们在不拴狗绳的狗
park I was terrified of
公园见面，我很怕
dogs my first impression of Sabrina was
狗，我对萨布丽娜的第一印象是
she was super cute she was nerdy was
她超级可爱，她是个书呆子，和
into all the same things that I
我一样喜欢所有同样的东西
was we were just chatted about anime
我们刚刚聊了动漫
comic books it was a breath of fresh air
漫画书，遇到这样的女人真是令人耳目一新，
meeting a woman like
that she was finishing up her double
她即将完成
Bachelor's in women's studies in public
公共卫生女性研究的双学士学位，
health and go to med school hopefully
并希望去医学院学习，这
just really
真的
awesome so B and I just kind of started
很棒，所以 B 和我只是有点 我开始
hanging out
more I would go over to her apartment
更多地一起玩 [音乐] 我会去她的公寓，
she came over to mine a couple times we
她来过我的公寓几次，我们
went on just movie
只是一起
dates so made me feel like appreciated
看电影，这让我觉得自己被欣赏
and wanted and
和被需要，
that because we had so many nerdy things
因为我们有很多
in common it made me feel Le less alone
共同的爱好，这让我 感觉不那么孤单，
like it made me feel like there was the
因为这让我觉得有
possibility of feminine comp
可能找到
companionship with someone who was also
一个和
into all the nerdy stuff I was into cuz
我一样喜欢书呆子东西的女性同伴，因为
I wasn't used to
我不习惯
that and then like a month or two
那样，然后大约一两个月
in we went to our first socer con
后，我们去了 我们第一次参加足球
together it's really a opportunity to
大会，这真的是一个交流的机会 对
commune with people that are into a
somewhat Niche
interest anime comic books everyone
动漫漫画书等小众事物感兴趣的人，每个人都
there has a huge amount of
passion going to soccer con with a
足球充满热情，和女朋友一起去参加足球大会，
girlfriend was just it was
这真是
revelatory this was the first convention
令人大开眼界，这是
like that that I'd really been to so I
我真正参加的第一个这样的大会，所以我
got to meet all these new interesting
遇到了 所有这些有趣的新
people and I got to meet them with my
朋友，我和我的女朋友一起认识了他们
girlfriend Anime conventions are the
动漫大会是
world's biggest C costume
世界上最大的C服装
party it's so much
派对，它非常
fun all can come all can enjoy and
有趣，所有人都可以来，所有人都可以享受，
nobody is left
没有人会被排除
out I first met Serena the year that I
在外[音乐]我第一次见到Serena是在我
was uh the assistant director of
呃，足球大会的助理关系总监，
relations for soccer
con she was amazing she was like this
她很棒，她很
warm charismatic like kind of goofy nerd
热情，很有魅力，有点像傻傻的书呆子，有点
kind of like me you know like I'm a
像我，你知道我是一个喜欢与
people person and I really like making
人打交道的人，我真的很喜欢结交
new friends and the whole reason I
新朋友，这也是我
joined soccer con to begin with was like
加入足球队的全部原因 一开始的缺点是
to make more friends cuz it's hard to do
想交更多的朋友，因为
that when you're grown up
当你长大后很难做到这一点，
right so I met her and Aon we would play
所以我遇到了她和 Aon，我们会玩
Risk we do like ridiculous day
Risk，我们喜欢疯狂的一日
trips we became really good
游，我们成为了非常好的
friends Aaron and SA 's relationship I
朋友 Aaron 和 SA 的关系 我
thought was
觉得
sweet Aaron is just like this Muppet of
Aaron 很可爱，就像